You would imagine that the person you would like won’t ever invest in you, because he can’t or will not, or both. And that you may never, ever find a guy that will agree to you, because males suck and then you die. okay. Rewind.
A lady I’m sure from Miami, Barbara, said about a brief event she had with a gentleman. They’d delicious chemistry and all sorts of lovely, sexy material occurred. “But it won’t work-out because he is noncommittal.”
They had just met. How exactly does she understand? She does not. She constructed a tale centered on her insecurity that is own that one could want just her, and blamed him because of it. Which is convenient. How can you understand some body is or might be devoted to you after per week? You cannot.
The idea that is persistent, that some individuals can not commit, is bullshit. Anybody can commit. It’s a choice, maybe not just a character trait — as convenient a reason as which may be to spell out why some one left or, by the real means, why you don’t loaf around (knife cuts both ways, see?). Continue reading